You are on the first date with a girl you have a crush on. Your palms are sweating, you are trying damn hard to come up with something funny to say, only to have long silences in your conversation. She gets up after an hour and says: "Sorry but its grasping late. I have to go home to feed my dog." Before you could say something, she has left already.

I am sure the above situation has come up in your worst nightmares. The most crucial part of your interactions and the key to success with women is the first date. If you do it well, it will be user friendly to get down and dirty quickly.

Most guys do something boring on the first date. Going to the movies together, sitting at a cafe, having an expensive dinner at a restaurant - the list is endless. Its effortless to make use of this to your advantage: by putting in a little bit of fantasy, you will be way ahead of the crowd.

Here is how:

When I go out with a woman, I take her on an "adventure date". This word has multiple meanings, as you will see. We do something exciting and romantic in the identical instant. Something that brings you as close as its possible on a first date.

Lets see an example:

A friend of mine takes his girls on an exciting outing. They visit one of the local sightseeing locations and end up at an abandoned ruin of a castle. By then its usually getting dark - dont worry though, my friend is there to hug and provide safety for our just-a-little-bit frightened girl :)

Another example:

We have a hill in my city with a castle and some monuments on the top. There is a tunnel crossing the hill. A tunnel, which ends in a bridge. The bridge is illuminated at night giving a wonderful sight.

Usually, I take my date on a short stroll among the monuments. As it is acquiring dark, we go on a tiny little roadway down the hill. A roadway , which leads us to a place that only a few many people understand : the top of the tunnel. And below us its the entire city giving a wonderful and romantic sight. This is the point where I go in for the first kiss with the girl.

Do not think that you need special places or monuments to go on adventure dates. You can even do them indoors:

When the weather doesnt allow going outside, I bring my girls to the local shopping center. We sit to a cafe and talk a bit. Then I stand up and invite them for a walk around. We visit a few shops while shopping some clothes for me. Then we play bowling or go to the local bookstore. Its funny to laugh at the various love and sex advice books together with the girl.

The above are just examples, its brain friendly to come up with your own ideas. All you need is a little bit of fantasy and to understand your city a little. Check out a local city guide paper for some examples or inquire of a friend who knows.

The key of adventure dates is not in the adventure itself, but in sharing activities with the girl. If you sit to a cafe and stay there for 4 hours, it will be nothing more than a conventional date. But if you sit to a cafe, then visit other places as well while being together, she will lose her sense of measure and feel like youve known each other for a while. In that state, its much easier to go in for the first kiss and get further.